Should I stay or should I go?

It was the 1 April 2011 when I took a one way flight from Cagliari (my orginary city in Sardinia) to London. And it was almost 11 years before the last time that I saw the Capital British City. And thiking about my feelings that day I can say.....WOW!!! I REALLY DID IT!!
We waste too much time wondering ourselves..."should I go or shoud l I stay?" (sound like a song...!), and the only people that decide to go - guess one of them....me?!! - are the winners!
But how to decide to take the decision to move abroad?
It was - and actually it is - not easy at all decide and organize to move in another country. I can say that there is not a specific rule, or a way to follow to realize what to do, but...I can tell you what make me decide to move, and how I organized myself to move to London....just take it as some advises!!
First: how do I feel here, in my city, in my work, in my life? Do I want all of this forever? Do I want to live this life for all my life? Well, that's the first question that you have to wonder at yourself.
For me, I felt "sick" every day: nausea, headache, back pain, anxiety, I coudn't breef well, claustrophobia, urticaria.....I felt every day a different pain, and whenever I tried to think about my life as in another way....I suddenly felt better....
Second: why dreams have to remain just dreams? maybe because we're afraid that after realizing it, we'll never have other dreams? Can we just realize it and then have other dreams to dream and  to realize?
Well, I decided then to put in practise this thesis: I dreamed for 11 years to go to London to live for a while.....did it! I dreamed for 29 years to go to see New York...did it!! And now, that my "big" dreams that stayed with me for almost all my life, I realized to have thousand other dreams to realize!! So..let's do it!!!
If you thinking to move aborad, just don't think about as a dream, but think to do it. You have just this life to realize it. Don't focus on negative staffs, but just think: what about if it will be the best thinks that I ever did in my life? Doing a such important experience can be ONLY a positive advenure, also if things seems to be difficults and hard. You will be only stonger after this experience!